We live in a world that is absolutely amazing, lessons all around us.  I have learned so many.  Today I would share with you that I have learned that there is no real pleasing when it comes to people unless it lines up with their set of values and belief system.  Trying to please others in any environment is a waste of time because at best it will be temporary.  One must learn what they stand for and have full conviction about and life that they live, understanding that others may or may not agree.  For those who agree with ones view or perceived view, they will follow as long as it pleases them to do so.  Man will not always follow man.  There comes a time when the difference in thinking and believing shows up and the loyalty disappears.  Simply put….I have learned that no matter what you do or how hard you try, you can not please everyone in a particular group.  You can not make decisions that always pleases the whole.  Mindsets, right or wrong have a way of outweighing good judgement, common sense and even familiar ties.  So to thine own self be true, and be grateful for those who share your time, your sentiments and space.  It may only be for a season.  Rest assured, it will not last.